It’s that time of year. We know how the season is supposed to go down. Besides pumpkin pie and turkey, we are encouraged to cultivate attitudes of gratitude. Something accomplished by growing grateful hearts.
Such as these attitudes:
Count our blessings.
Be thankful.
Express our gratefulness.
Show our generosity.
And when we look at this list, do we think of our lives, our family, and more importantly, our God?
So how do we cultivate attitudes of gratitude in all the areas of our lives, for the people in our lives, and for the God who gives us life?
Even further, are gratitude, generosity, and thanksgiving possible January through December—not just during November or on Thanksgiving Day?
And where do we start? Let’s use the list in the introduction and unpack each one.
(1.) Count Our Blessings: Growing Grateful Hearts
Everyone brace yourselves. This is going to blow our minds! The Lord provides:
- Basic needs.
- Our people: spouse, children, extended family, friends, and Himself in the three persons of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
- Skills (jobs), talents, spiritual gifts, and identity in Christ.
- Life: eternal life, abundant life, and life itself…the very breath in our lungs.
- Every spiritual blessing. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places.” Ephesians 1:3 (ESV) While it’s not an exhaustive list, these include: amazing grace, never-ending mercy, unconditional and undying love, unsurpassed peace, real hope, authentic faith, unwavering truth (the Bible), overflowing joy, God’s fullness for our emptiness, and the Lord’s goodness, kindness, and compassion.
If we counted our blessings, really made a list, our mouths may gape open and our hearts fill with gratitude. So, go ahead, make a list. Count your blessings.
(2.) Be Thankful: Growing Grateful Hearts
Psalm 100 exclaims a thankfulness to the Lord. Look at verse 4, “Enter his gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! Give thanks to him; bless his name!” (ESV) The psalm paints a picture of thankfulness for God’s goodness and mercy in our lives and so much more.
And thanksgiving often changes our perspective. Whether life is going great or we are walking through hardships. Thanking God for all He’s done and all He will do cultivates a grateful heart.
(3.) Express Our Gratefulness: Growing Grateful Hearts
Recently, I told a friend I was grateful for her friendship. Yet, when was the last time I expressed those same sentiments to family members and to the Lord? Some examples:
- Spouse, “Honey, I’m so grateful you’re in my life and for all you mean to our family.”
- Children, “I thank the Lord He allowed me to be your mother. You are special to me.”
- Friends, “Your encouragement in my life and my Christian walk means more than you know. I’m grateful for you.”
- God, “Lord, I stand amazed at Your craftsmanship in me as Creator, Your faithfulness and care to me as Father, Your voice and direction to me as Guide, Your revelation and wisdom to me as Truth, and Your redemption and protection for me as Rescuer and Deliverer. Thank You, Lord. I’m so grateful.”
(4.) Show Our Generosity: Growing Generous Hearts
Our gratefulness directly affects our generosity. Years ago, as I reflected on gratitude, God spoke to my heart.
Grateful people are generous people. Generous people are grateful people.
It proves true with me. When gratefulness rises in my heart, I’m more generous with my money and time and service to others. Likewise, when my generosity bubbles over on others, gratefulness swells in my soul.
Therefore, we ask ourselves if we are generous with our time, money, service, love, spiritual gifts, and forgiveness.
Do we show acts of generosity to our family, friends, neighbors, community, and the least of these—hungry, thirsty, naked, sick, and imprisoned—as defined in Matthew 25?
Yes, it’s that time of year. But let’s ask the Lord to help us in growing grateful and generous hearts all year long.
Also see Sincere ThanksGiving Through ThanksLiving.
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I love how Thanksgiving, and now the whole month of November, remind us and spur us on to the thankfulness we should have all year.
Yes, Barbara! I pray for a grateful heart not just November to December, but November to November! Happy Thanksgiving!
I loved the reminder to be grateful for spiritual blessings! Those blessings are really what makes life worth living.
Yes, those spiritual blessings are what matters most in life! Thanks for your comment, Jerralea, Happy Thanksgiving.
Giving thanks is so powerful. Thank you, Karen. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
It definitely changes our perspective when we give thanks to God. Happy Thanksgiving to you, Debbie!
So refreshing, Karen! I’m grateful for you and your faithful words here each month, and for this post reminding my heart of all we have to be grateful for. Also – grateful people are generous people is true of me too. May God grow my gratitude, and in turn, my generosity!
Thank you, Bethany. May the Lord grow us all in gratitude and generosity!
So refreshing, Karen! I’m grateful for you and your faithful words here each month, and for this post reminding my heart of all we have to be grateful for. Also – grateful people are generous people is true of me too. May God grow my gratitude, and in turn, my generosity! Happy Thanksgiving!
It is a wonderful time of year to focus on giving thanks. Like you, I want to “ask the Lord to help us in growing grateful and generous hearts all year long.” The connection between generosity and gratitude is such a powerful and much needed one. Blessings to you, Karen!
Hi Joanne, I so desire to have an attitude of gratitude all year long. Giving thanks to the Lor is so important in our spiritual journey and our relationship with Him.
This post was a blessing to me. Thank you for providing the weekly link-up! May God bless you and yours this Thanksgiving season!
Happy and blessed thanksgiving to you and your family, Cheryl!
These truths are so simple but so easy to neglect, aren’t they? Thanks for the reminders, Karen.